1. Use positive reinforcement to encourage good behavior. Instead of telling children to stop doing something, focus on the positive behavior you want to see. Praising children for their excellent behavior can encourage them to continue acting positively.

2. Encourage children to express their feelings using “I” statements. This can help children take ownership of their feelings and healthily communicate them. This also helps avoid blaming or accusing language, leading to conflicts.

3. Model positive language by using it yourself. Children learn by example, so if you use positive language, they are more likely to do the same. You can practice using positive language by being mindful of the words you use and the tone of your voice when speaking to children.

4. Help children reframe negative self-talk by pointing out their strengths and accomplishments. When children make negative self-statements like “I can’t do this,” you can point out their strengths and successes. This helps children to reframe their negative self-talk and focus on their abilities rather than their limitations.

5. Teach children to express gratitude by encouraging them to say thank you and modeling gratitude yourself. Practicing gratitude helps children to focus on the positive things in their lives and fosters a sense of contentment and well-being. You can encourage gratitude by asking children to share things they are thankful for and modeling gratitude yourself.